My Love Affair with Thailand-Epilogue-Chapter 3

After my return to the UK in July 2007 life became fairly hectic, it certainly wasn’t straightforward, but somewhere along the way I made a decision to pack up work in the UK and move to Thailand.

A Tale of Impulse and Naivety

Normally I am a good planner but I can be somewhat impulsive and on reflection there was a certainly a degree of the the latter involved in my move to Thailand. True when I arrived in Bangkok on the 16th January 2008 I had a job offer of sorts teaching English in Prachuap Khiri Khan but it was all a bit vague and as I soon discovered not worth the paper it was  written on.

Naively, based on my previous interactions with the Thai people, I had thought that the Thai company I was supposed to be working for were above board. Well they weren’t and as I sat jobless and homeless in a hotel in Bangkok I did wonder just what I was going to do. Fortunately money was not an issue and I had a multi-entry O visa that would give me up to 15 months in Thailand. I also had a return ticket to the UK that was valid for a year.

I could have turned round there and then after taking a few  days holiday, but given that I had burned my bridges back home, literally selling up everything I owned, I figured this wasn’t an option, not least because I didn’t fancy those back home saying “I told you so!” Anyway its was the depths of winter in the UK and the sun was shining in the land of smiles. Not necessarily the best reasons for staying but at the time it seemed a sound enough decision and I felt comfortable enough in a country that I had visited several times. I also had a Thai contact in the form of Duen the young woman I had met in Phuket back in July 2007.

I contacted Duen and she came to join me. After a few more days in Bangkok we travelled south to Prachuap Khiri Khan, I had this vague plan to confront someone from the company who had promised me work. Quite what I hoped to achieve, I’m not sure, but of course in those days I knew very little about the Thai culture and the way things are done in the country, particularly if you are a foreigner.

I never did find the company, the office they used was empty and I guess just  a front for their operations which I later discovered was acting as agents supplying native English speakers to schools for a commission while employing the teachers at very low salaries. Incidentally I still see adverts this company place on a popular Thai based teachers web-board so I guess there may well be a few teachers out there who have had a similar experience to me or worse, ending up working for peanuts!

We stayed in Prachuap for a couple of weeks in a beach side hotel. It only cost around £10 a night for bed and breakfast, a real bargain.  Hiring a motor-cycle and travelling around the area I soon discovered that I quite liked the laid-back off the beaten track lifestyle in this quaint seaside town.  We also hired some cycles and  one day when we were out and about we came across a new housing development not far from the charming and picturesque bay at Ao Manao.

A New Home and more Naivety

This is where I met the Doctor, who on face value seemed a charming upper class Thai who spoke faltering English. He seemed to be a local entrepreneur, a Wing Commander in the Thai Air Force, in the medical section, he explained that he was developing the housing project in the tiny village of Nong Hin. He had grand plans for the site including a swimming pool and medical centre. The houses were to be two and three bedroom bungalows set on different sized plots of land. Several bungalows were already completed and occupied.

Once again my impulsive side kicked in and before I knew it I had agreed to buy one of the houses on the Doctor’s development. At less than a million Baht(about £12,000 at the time) it seemed great value. Interestingly Duen did not seem impressed with my purchase and said on more than one occasion said she did not like the Doctor.  Perhaps I should have listened, since given my now better understanding of the Thai culture, she was probably telling me that the deal was no good. But while I would have said this if I had had doubts she did not.

Of course with hindsight its easy to see why this move by me was a major mistake, but given my naivety at the time about Thailand the way the Thai culture operates it is perhaps understandable. Of course it wasn’t just my lack of understanding of cultural issues that were at fault here because I knew nothing about Thai property laws and land ownership particularly in relationship to foreigners.

Anyway I had a new house, purchased for a song in my opinion, so what could possible go wrong?  Well I mean the Doctor said it would all be fine and he was respected local doctor and air force medic wasn’t he?  Perhaps I am colour blind too because I’m fairly certain that most folk would have been seeing a flashing yellow light by now but not me, I mean why would anyone want to cheat me in Thailand?

Like I said was I naive in those days of my love affair with Thailand.

Related posts:

  1. My Love Affair with Thailand-Epilogue-Chapter 4
  2. My Love Affair with Thailand-Epilogue-Chapter 1
  3. My Love Affair with Thailand-Epilogue-Chapter 2
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  • V F

     Ouch.  It may or may not be comforting to know that you and your experience are not all that unfamiliar to anyone who has been around Thailand for a while.  After a few failed attempts to help others, we often resort to a shrug, a forced smile and an obligatory yet disingenuous wish for good luck.

    Introspection and soul searching is always of value in my opinion.  It would be great if it rubbed off on others and the lessons learned could be generalized to others but sadly that seldom happens.

    I like you honesty and condor.

    • http://www.thailand-blogs.com Mike

      VF, I hope that by being honest and showing some candour it might help others who get “dazzled by the bright lights.” Although as you indicate I doubt anyone will really take that much notice, guess I would probably have fallen into that category when I washed up at Bangkok too ;-)

      The experience has certainly taught me a thing or two, that said have I really learned anything?

  • daniel

    In my experience anyone who introduces themselves with their qualifications tagged on is compensating for something: they usually also drive a small red sports car. Whether it is Mrs. Dick MA or Dr. Dick, they are still dicks. After all an MA in media studies only qualifies that person for being a contestant on American Idol or as a Sun newspaper reader.

    I am grateful to engineering for giving me this scepticism.

    • http://www.thailand-blogs.com Mike

      Dan, yes perhaps the alarm bells should have been ringing, but like I said naive is a fairly accurate description for me. I’m no engineer either ;-)

  • http://www.thaisabai.org Martyn

    Mike – After reading your first two excellent chapters I’d pre-guessed where the tale was heading and had a fairly good idea of how it was going to end. However this chapter has put a spanner into my works. An interesting and intriguing one it is.

    I’d presumed Duen was going to take the eventual bad girl role in the story but your introduction of ‘The Doctor’ is giving me reasons to rethink. He sounds a bit like a JR Ewing type Dallas character to me, complete with a cowboy hat.

    The Doctor…. can we expect Daleks in the next chapter because Ice Warriors are out of the question in Thailand’s searing heat. Perhaps ‘The Master’ will make an appearance too.

    Keep up the excellent writing.

    How are you enjoying life back in ‘The Land of Hidden Taxes and Sky High Taxi Prices’.

    • http://www.thailand-blogs.com Mike

      Hi Martyn, sorry to disappoint although I’m not saying there aren’t any “bad girls” in the tale, but perhaps they live nearer to home.

      Life continues a pace here,  just this morning I invested £90 in a speed awareness course with my local constabulary as an alternative to 3 points and £60 fixed penalty. Talk about Nanny State or perhaps that should read stealth tax state?

  • http://www.strayandsnap.blogspot.com Snap

    Mike, I really enjoying reading your tale…and then I remember this is a true story…oh, dear! Looking forward to the next chapter, but at the same time,  tensing up waiting for the next bomb shell.

    • http://www.thailand-blogs.com Mike

      Snap, nice to hear from you(still follow yours blogs of course). I hope when I have finished someone might avoid some of the pitfalls I fell into if they choose to live in LOS.

  • Anonymous

    The plot thickens! Bring on the soi dogs. Like Snap, I’m really enjoying the read but feeling some of your hurt — which I guess is an effect good writing has, whether or not you know the writer personally.

    • http://www.thailand-blogs.com Mike

      Hi Lawrence, soi dogs…….what are they, folks even parcel up the dog mess here! Another episode next week I fancy. PS Checkout http://www.lifeintheuktoday.com

  • http://twitter.com/ray_malcolm Ray Malcolm

    Really Like this. It’s well written (except for  few typos: what could possible go wrong) and I feel myself being drawn onto chapter 4. Great idea for a blog post too …. I will keep reading